As Christians, we need to keep clarity. Our faith is not a blind faith!
I don't know where this topic came from. . .it's on my mind all of a sudden, but I think it may come from this verse I read this morning:
Open my eyes, that I may see wondrous things from Your law. (Psalm 119:18)
The Bereans were noted in Scripture "that they received the word with all readiness, and searched the Scriptures daily to find out whether these things were so." (Acts 17:11)
We must take everything we hear and compare it to the truth of the Bible before we begin to let it alter the way we live.
Christianity is not for people who want to leave their minds behind along with their common sense.
2 Timothy 1:7 tells us:
For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.
Compare this to the religions that use mind-altering substances such as drugs and alcohol. Seriously, the heck?! These and even other religions (including some denominations of Christianity) that don't use mind altering substances can have a great amount of hullabaloo and chaos, but that's not what God wants.
1 Corinthians 14 has a good-sized text stating that church meetings are to be orderly.
Verse 33 reads:
For God is not the author of confusion but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints
I have been hearing all around me lately that you have to learn to love yourself before you love others. This really gets me fired up! WE DON'T NEED TO LEARN TO LOVE OURSELVES!!!! We already do. It's natural. You may say, oh I hate myself, I'm such a terrible person. Yeah, you are a sinner. I already knew that. "self-hate" is pride! Admit you're a sinner, because it is true! But to say that your life doesn't mean anything is to say that God is wrong--he didn't create you for grins and giggles. He has a purpose for your life. You are made in his image. So, you hate what God made?
Ephesians 5:29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.
We are to live a life of humility and service to each other, and not look for ways to serve ourselves, but to serve the body.
James 3:16
For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there.
Note: because English is not a very precise and accurate language, to some "loving oneself" is simply to take care of themselves. In the Bible health and hygiene are clearly supported. We are also told multiple times that our bodies our God's temple, housing the Holy Spirit. What I am speaking against is consistently putting personal wants and pleasures before the needs and even pleasures of others. Our need for food and sleep should lead to our humility because we must realise God made us to need those things. We are not self-sufficient but depend on Him and on other people for our well-being. And if you are responsible for another person (your child/ren, of if you are a man, your wife), then you must take care of them before giving of your time and resources to others. 1 Timothy 5:8 tells us: But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.